This post shares a poignant reflection from an autistic individual who describes "trying to learn to be human" by mimicking behaviors and social cues from the TV show Friends. At first glance, it might seem lighthearted, but it speaks to a much deeper reality: the challenges many autistic people face in understanding and navigating neurotypical social dynamics.

Using television as a blueprint for interaction highlights a common strategy among those on the spectrum studying and replicating social behavior in an effort to fit in, connect, and be understood. The post sheds light on how autism is often misinterpreted, not as a difference in processing or communication, but as disinterest or awkwardness. In truth, it reflects a deeply human desire for belonging and acceptance.

It's a powerful reminder of the invisible work many do every day just to feel "normal" in a world that isn’t always built to accommodate them.

In 4th grade I tried to teach myself “how to be human”